Even though there are many resources on the internet today for finding a g0y bromance, it is better to start from scratch with someone you are already connected with or who crosses paths in your life. In other words, finding a true goy relationship online is not realistic.
You might find Christian men hiding their same sex attraction in your church, but it will take a long time and a lot of trust for them to open up to you.
The truth is, there are a LOT of Christian males desiring to have a g0y-like relationship with another male but are (1) afraid to open up in fear or being kicked out of the church (2) believe that they are having sinful desires and (3) are captured by the LGBTQ+ Community and are being led down a non-biblical path.
Either you fit one of the three descriptions above and/or you are the only hope for some-one in your church. The hard part is finding them and being patient. The risky part is being vulnerable and open yourself.
I only know this, because I am in one of those three categories mentioned above. I have taken many risks in my church to see if I could find anyone. Believe it or not, I did, but people move or have other lives. Sometimes friends come and go. However, I don’t give up and try to be the one that other men can open up to and trust with their so-called condemned secretes.
I carry a lot of other bro’s secretes that will follow me to the grave. It is not an easy life to bare, but I think it is well worth it. I know so much more about brotherhood than I did 20 years ago. It is a lifelong journey and experience. There is much I can’t talk about, but already some of you know what I am saying.
STOP reaching out for masculine love and brotherhood on the internet. Start looking where you are in your church and community. They are hiding, begging for someone to find them and spill their emotions and thoughts. Be That One! Be That Male Friend! Create that Safe Place! Be that Safe Place!
Know what the bible actually says and become the teacher. Don’t scold or mock. Encourage and be the shoulder to cry on and the cock to share with. Be the friend, the brother, and if need be, the father.
Until then, PRAY to God the Father to open opportunities and for that friend you need in your life. His timing is Perfect! Don’t lose faith in that. He knows who is best for you and when it is time.
Christian G0ys (G-zerro-Y) 